The Power of the Tongue: A Reflection on Language and Faith

Alternative words are often no better than the vilest of terms. As Christians, we use alternative language, thinking that it is "okay" or "permissible," even in church settings.

You may ask yourself, "What do I mean by alternative language?" A simple but direct explanation can be understood with the word "darn." Many of us start to say "damn" but stop ourselves and use "darn" as an alternative. Our minds think of "damn," and we feel the word just about to slip out, but we are quick enough to lock our lips and switch gears slightly. Is our use of one word any better than what we are really thinking? Is the use of "darn" any better than "damn," or "shucks" any better than "shit," if our hearts are not being honest with our spoken words?

Oh, I must plead guilty, for my tongue has led me into difficult situations more than once. I have used and abused my ability to speak to my detriment many times in the past. Perhaps what I need to do is remember verses of Scripture like Proverbs 21:23, which states, "Those who guard their mouths and their tongues keep themselves from calamity." James, in his inspired wisdom, wrote in 3:5-6, "Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one's life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell."

Instead of working hard to catch myself from using alternative language, it would also be wise for me to check my heart and mind.